THE EXTENDED FAMILY REUNION

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 As we grew old and met our own spouses to start our own families then each of us lives in different houses and even different regions. Then we have children of our own. Brothers and sisters seldom meet because of the tight schedules we have. We always make time to see Mom and Dad. We take turns visiting him. My mom passed away years ago.

The grandchildren must know each other and they must know the value of our extended family. This extended family reunion strengthens bonds, preserves family history, and provides emotional and practical support. It offers a chance to create lasting memories, connect with extended family members who may live far away, and pass down wisdom and traditions between generations. These gatherings can also improve mental well-being by reducing feelings of isolation and building a stronger sense of identity.

The extended family reunion provides a casual setting to reconnect with relatives, meet new family members, and foster a sense of belonging.  The sense of support and connection can reduce feelings of loneliness and isolation, contributing to better mental health. Children and adults can gain confidence and a stronger sense of identity by learning about their family's history and heritage. It also offers a support network that can provide comfort and a sense of security during both happy and difficult times.

In shorts, extended family reunion is a way to share family stories, learn about our heritage, and pass down cultural traditions and values to younger generations. In addition to that, it can provide a valuable network for practical help, like childcare or sharing resources and a unique opportunity for different generations to share experiences, wisdom, and perspectives with one another. It is a chance to create shared experiences filled with love and laughter.

Mr. Sai

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